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Saturday, 13 August 2016

I Don’t Love Him but He is Important in My Life: What should i do ?



I Don’t Love Him but He isImportant in My Life: What todo ?How can I make someone realize how much Icare for that one person? I don’t love himbut that person has a very important place inmy life. Please suggest what to do.A member of our Facebook page needed littlehelp with her relationship. So she reached uswith this question and wanted to get itpublished on our page to get multiplesuggestions regarding the situation thesender is going through right now. Belowmentioned are some top fan suggestion’sthat helped the sender with her situation.


1# Loving is Caring and Caring isLoving:If you still care for him continue loving him,cause loving is caring and caring is loving! Point is, you can’t ignore his love completely,if you really care for someone then just tellthem & show it through your actions andefforts. It’s not really that hard to showsomeone that you care for them, actionsspeak louder than words, but sometimestelling them with words is just as importantas well. Don’t listen to anyone who tells youdifferent, it’s never too late for anythingcause time is always on your side and it’sonly up to you to pick the right time to showthem your love and care. If they really feelthe same way they won’t hesitate to comeback to take a chance to see your actionsand efforts, as long as they’re important toyou, make sure that they know it forthemselves as well? I hope this helps, goodluck.


2# Try Saying it through Quotes:Not all people don’t know how to expresstheir love so a Love Quote or Card could helpthem express it all over again, especially ifyou have been hurt before.

3# Try those Simple Thoughtfulness: Instead of saying that you love that person,you need to prove it by doing some otherthings together, the unusual things that youdon’t actually do. Or maybe ask Him/ Her fora dinner outside, or maybe watch a movietogether. There’s a lot of things to do for youto show you care for that person. If thatperson is weak or ill, maybe you could taketime to be with Him/ Her when needed. Givea flower, and surprise that person withchocolates, hug that person and say it’s notyour special day but I thought youdeserve these. Surely that person will smile.If you don’t actually love a person and youjust wanted to show that you care, all thosesimple thoughtfulness will do.


4# Set Some Boundaries:If he or she is important, then there’s nothingmore to ask, just care enough, be there, setsome priorities. If you don’t love that personwhy care? Why is he/she important? Being insomeones’ life as a friend, is more importantthan not having them at all. Set someboundaries!

5# Tell them Straight:You don’t need to get someone to realize it inthe first place, it’s not them who needs to doit. It’s you and the best way to do is, toshow. If you don’t love the person butsomehow they are important in your life, tellhonestly and be true to yourself. Love hasmany ways and definitions. Sometimes, thereare things we want that we don’t need andthings we need that we don’t want, but nomatter how small or big it is, it is importantto appreciate it’s value. Tell them straight ifthe value you have for that person iswarranted they will understand and begrateful for your honesty.


6# Never Leave their Side:Always be there for that person love him. Nomatter how hard it gets stay in his/her life.Always listen to their problems if they haveany. Try to spend a lot of time with him/her.Always stick around and never leave theirside.What else do you suggest if she doesn’t lovehim? Let us know in comments below. Gotsome questions that needs to be answered?

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