Men think women are a task; certainly not! All
women across the globe wish for one thing –
for her man to understand her! All you
women know that blank stare you get during
some of the most critical conversations
about your relationship or that offensive walk
out of the room leaving the argument
incomplete. In such situations, women tend
to forget that men have the mental capacity
of a 6-year old, they need to be told things
subtly or else they will only retaliate.
Sure, communicating in a relationship is a
task and asking your man to understand you
is a Hercules task, but it is not impossible!
Here are some guidelines you can try to
make you man understand you completely.
1. Give him time to comprehend
Women analyse and talk to themselves a lot;
men on the other hand have their heads filled
with sports, work, poker and everything that
does not come include ‘emotions.’ You may
have thought about a particular matter for
four days and decided how you are going to
present it to your partner- this exercise must
have taken you about a week. Now, one fine
day you go and let it all out in front of him,
expecting a response and reaction
immediately. You may get a reaction, but not
a response – simply because men are slow
at processing. Since you have had the time
to think and re-think the matter, give him that
fair opportunity too.
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2. Don’t Shout; Don’t Nag; Just Smile
Shouting, fighting and nagging – all these are
going to show you a dead-end! We all know
that men do not react well to tantrums, leave
alone nagging him for hours together! And
what are you going to achieve by shouting on
top of your voice? Stress and high blood
pressure and a silent, blank looking partner!
All the shouting and nagging will only push
him towards the negative more and you will
never get your point across. Instead, try
talking to him in a neutral tone with a gentle
smile and of course, keeping it short!
For instance, don’t complain that using his
cell phone continuously irritates you and
that’s going to be the reason for your failed
relationship, but smile and tell him that when
you are with each other, try to avoid any
distractions.
3. Respect him
Your man does not have to earn your
respect; he deserves it just like you do! By
assuming that all his actions have to be
about pleasing you and impressing you – you
are highly mistaken! He is a human being
with emotions too. When you show him some
gratitude, his actions and emotions will
become warmer and he will respond to your
needs and wants positively.
4. Give Hints about your Nature
You will think that he should make an effort
to study your personality and know your likes
and dislikes. He may think he knows you, but
you don’t think it is enough. So stop the
blame game and take the reins in your hand!
Share tales about your childhood, tell him
about your college life or some successful
project at work – all these stories will help
him understand you as a person and before
you know it, he will start connecting with you
on a level you always wished for.
5. Communicate When He’s Free
If you are talking to him when he’s working
on the laptop or while he is watching TV, you
need to know that nothing is going to sink
into his mind. So save your breath for a time
when his attention is not diverted. When his
mind is free, he will be able to rationalize
better, think better and most importantly,
respond in a better way!
6. Allow him to Ask Questions
The universal fact is that women talk more
than men! Talking more than your man is
fine, but you should allow him to express too,
because only then will you know whether
your actions and efforts are being heard by
the opposite person! While you are chatting
away, try to encourage him to ask you
questions about your life, your work, and your
relationship – you need to talk less and get
him to talk more. So guide your
conversations in a way that make ask you
questions and give him an opportunity to put
out something on the table too.
7. Practice What You Preach
Put your moral science education to use! If
you want to be treated in a particular way,
you should treat him in the same manner!
Talk to him politely and he will reply in the
same tone; show respect in public and you’ll
get that in return; be positive about your
relationship and you’ll receive double the
amount of positivity back. So if you wish for
him to understand you, you need to start
understanding him first!
You can refer to this guidebook, but
remember that these tips will not show
overnight results. Be patient and committed
because men are a piece of work and they
think the same about women! All you need to
do is be consistent and be in love and all the
efforts will be worth it! So be rational,
communicate wisely and believe that change
is possible.
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